BF since we were 6 years old. Ditched me for the first 2 years at HS for the cool crowd. She came back the 3rd year when she had a fight with them. Stole from me and lied constantly. I always let her come back because I had no one else.

After many many years of the same shit. The last straw for me was when her husband nearly killed her and I stayed with her coz she was scared to be alone in case he came back. I did everything I could for her. Not long after this I had surgery that she knew about but rather than call or msg me to see how I was. I got a msg to ask since I was home could she drop off her computer fort me to look at.

Took me 30 years to finally let the toxicity go