I'm not sure if I was pretending to feel it. I might've, because I've had a problem with doing those things for a while now. I don't have an agenda though. If I was disturbed by the thought it would've been because I thought you could use such a thing as justification. That I thought you would do that (would you?) would probably be because I connect incels with my parents, since my parents have expressed similar views of the world (that they are victims, the world is uncaring and unkind, but only unkind by their definition. they are the type to pretend to be kind), and if someone were to harm their egos, they would hate that person extremely, and if it wasn't illegal I can see them physically harming them in retaliation. So the feeling was real, but coming from past personal experience. I would like to believe that it does not apply to incels, but a lot of the stuff I see here reminds me a lot of the selfish thought processes of my parents. Actually I only got involved in all this because of how you say that it's so terrible that someone insulted someone else's ego (after they insulted first!). It was like how you think something is bad because it made you feel bad, instead of because it made someone else feel bad.

On the other point though, I explained it. The 'don't you see' was just how i thought it in my head, as if it was verbal communication.