Please help. Me 31 F my boyfriend 34 M . Should I be worried or chill out?

Hi, Reddit I need your opinion.

TL;DR Boyfriend and his married co-worker are exchanging texts during our date. They seem harmless but it's bothering me so much. I don't know why I feel this way.

My Boyfriend and I have been together since January.

My boyfriend works with a [married] girl named Jackie.

Jackie is our age. I have met her and her husband before and they seem nice. However, Jackie is constantly texting Boyfriend. When it first happened, I was like "whatever" but now... He sits right in front of me sending her pictures of his food.

Last night we were at a steakhouse and he is sending her pictures of the menu, his food, some brunch deal they were having and it was annoying the fuck out of me.

I was thinking, "Bring you to a steakhouse, just eat your food."

It bugs the shit out of me. Am I overthinking? Please help.


That being said, you are annoyed your boyfriend can't focus on you while you're together. Ask him to text her when you are not around or limit it to a few texts here and there.

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