So if I don't agree with your beliefs I'm "attacking" you? Simply for not believing or agreeing with you? Ok. So: why did you post this question in the first place? Anyone who wants to respectfully disagree with you and show you their perspective is automatically shot down by you without you actually considering their point of view. You don't have to agree with them, but if you don't even listen or consider why and how they make this argument...Why did you ask the question in the first place?

I have a right to disagree with you, as you have a right to disagree with me. Disagreement is fine! But what's the point of having a discussion if you won't even listen to what others are trying to tell you? You asked this question purely to have others agree with you or for you to blindly argue against those who don't - not to try and understand that person's perspective.

Your response will be "but you're not trying to see MY perspective!" But the fact is: I've spent all day learning about TRP and truly trying to see things from the point of view of TRP guys on the board. But ultimately I just don't and can't agree with what is said. Why? Because the way they are describing women is not who I am. I know who I am and how I live my life. You do not. You don't know me. Here is who I am: someone who does not judge a guy by how much money he has. Someone who's never pressed charges against a guy for rape (even if that's happened to me I didn't press charges or drag that guy's name through the mud - EVER). Someone who loves men and respects men and wants to support men. I tell my suitors the truth as well as I can. I try not to play games. I've been hurt by men but I still believe in men. So don't you dare tell me who I am. You don't know me. And I in turn don't presume to know you. I tried to learn about you and have a frank discussion but obviously that's not enough for you. No matter what I say you will not believe me, trust me, be open to my point of view or respect the fact that I truly am like this and truly have these opinions. I respect that you have the opinions you have - why won't you respect that I am a free-thinking individual who has the opinions I have?