3. Q4all: sexually fantasizing your SO is healthy for your relationship

Q4all: sexually fantasizing your SO is healthy for your relationship

This is one of the reasons why when I was discussing marriage with my husband I stipulated that porn was to be excluded. Absolutely no individual watching but maybe watching as a couple, which we did very seldom but haven't so in years. Mental fantasy lovers soon take the place of your real one in long-term monogamy.

I still have fantasies about my husband and have thought about writing short porn stories for him to show my pleasure with him as my husband and lover. These stories would be scripts for unspoken desires to better help him understand certain desires I have.

I agree with the article, although I may have missed some details because I skimmed it.

Your mental image of your partner will spill over into other aspects of your relationship. So casting your partner as the lead of your fantasy sex life actually helps with increasing the bond.

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