You're probably aligning "incels" with "virgins/guys who can't get a date at present".
Incels is viewed as a radical extremist ideology, with stringent definitive beliefs that adamantly stipulate that sexually, reality has all been arranged in a way keeping them out entirely. With that outlook being held to, they absolutely maintain their own mentally unhealthy frame, and their culture also drags in a lot of vulnerable young/inexperienced Guys. They are definitely a bad culture.
A virgin or a Guy who is struggling with Women is just a virgin or a Guy who is struggling with Women. They deserve help and advice, not a defeatist whirlpool of negativity.