I was such a chill bride that I was getting annoyed at people for asking "that's it?" "Are you sure?"

Like look here, this is what I want, and i don't want to be a bridezilla.

I had a very small simple ceremony, and my only concern about the reception was making sure we had enough yummy food and beer for everyone. I made sure to pick out my colors, DJ, photographer, dress, bridesmaid/groom/groomsmen clothes and location. I didn't care which beer we had, if the decorations we're stars or if they were stripes. I made decisions on the things that really mattered. The inlaws paid for food so I told them picnic style whatever they thought best. I didn't give a crap about details and yet people kept pushing.

The one thing that my husband and I specifically wanted above all else was for the reins of castermere to play during our toasts, and had specifically explained it to those who needed to be in the know how it should go. And it was Soo botched that we couldn't help but laugh at it at the time. And looking back I think the botched was better than the original plan.

People we're so hung up on details and perfection of my wedding that they thought I would be mad about the mistake. And some of them couldn't understand why I wasn't. "If that had been my wedding plans....XYZ" people couldn't wrap their heads around the fact that my husband and I were laid back about it all.