I'm a first-time visitor here and this place is weird, surprising, sad, and kind of toxic but also an interesting support group for a hidden but painful affliction. I'm pretty glad it didn't exist back when I was incel or I would've probably gotten sucked into the negativity, blackpilled real quick, and stayed incel for whatever was left of my short life.

I understand that these incel fellas have it rough. Much of what they say is actually pretty true... you may have the world's best personality and beautiful women might really enjoy you for that but, if you're a real troll, they're not likely to want to fuck you. Even if they do, the idea of a long term relationship is pretty unlikely.

That said, where I stop being able to understand the mentality of this subculture is when they start blaming women for that. It's evolution, boys. Women can't choose to be attracted to you any more than a person can choose to be gay or straight. They can't choose it any more than you can choose to be attractive.

The whole "women are sexually racist", "women are Hitler" thing misses the point so bad it's embarrassing. I get it, gents, your evolutionary drive for love is so fucking strong but female evolutionary drive makes that impossible for you but you're both just following nature. Tell your brain to stop wanting women and report back about how well that works for you.

My advice for you incel guys is to know and accept that you are not a good option for women through no fault of your own and no fault of theirs. Now that you know this, do what every creature has done since evolution began and keep fucking trying. Will you find love and sex? I don't know, but you definitely won't if you blackpill and die, that's a guarantee.

I'm no hideous troll, just a normie. I was incel for a long time but I landed me some love and I'm pretty sure I did so by not attempting to interact with women while harboring resentment toward them for things they can't fucking choose.