UPDATE:

I’ve tried everything. I approached her and told her all of the things I felt and figured out ways to help her get through her things. She proceeded by telling me that she doesn’t feel stable in our relationship due to us having fights. Yet, she has promised me she will never leave and she has stated many times that she wants to marry me.

Now I’m confused because no matter what I try she is not willing to do anything.

The conversation got heated and she started calling me naive saying that I didn’t understand why she called us unstable and she started saying that I’m forcing her again.

I don’t understand, aren’t fights part of a relationship? These are all petty fights and nothing that’s really a big deal.

I put myself in uncomfortable positions for her and her wants many times, but she’s not willing to do the same. For the first time in 2 years I feel like she’s not the right girl for me :(