I met him one night in a club and he seemed nice enough, good looking and friendly. We exchanged numbers at the end of the night and I looked forward to meeting him again. Nothing unusual, I was 18 and he was early 20s and I spent a lot of time in clubs so I was comfortable with everything.
About a week passed and we had sent a few texts and decided to meet for a drink. He offered to pick me up from my house but as I didn't know him well yet, I arranged to meet him by the entrance to a hotel on a main road near my house. We went to a pub, I had plans to meet a friend about 9 so we only stayed an hour and he took me to where I was meeting my friend, we had a short kiss then left. I was glad it was over as he was actually not interesting. Boring in fact. He added me on Facebook and I accepted but didn't think we'd talk much after that. I was very wrong.
A month or so passed after this and we didn't meet again until one night out in town when we met by chance. He told me he couldn't stop thinking about me. I was drunk and foolishly kissed him and we parted ways again. A couple of days later, it says on Facebook that he is in a relationship. At least this meant he wasn't interested in me anymore I thought. However it was not long after this he sent me a text that read "I am obsessed with you". I told him to stop at this point as he had a girlfriend. He passed it off and being flirty and told me to get over it.
For about 6 months after this, every few weeks he would text me. After the first time this happened, he sent incredibly graphic details of how he wanted to have sex with me. I deleted him on Facebook and kept asking him to stop. Sometimes he would include naked pictures too. Keep in mind I never got further than a kiss with this guy. He texted me once about 10 months into his relationship while on holiday with his girlfriend and told me he wished it was me not her. Again I told him to stop. Each time I turned him down he'd get annoyed and tell me he never wanted to speak to me again but sure enough, it was usually less than a month and I'd get a random naked picture again or something.
All the messages I could have ignored but one night, I hadn't heard from him for a few weeks and I was home alone. Parents were on holiday. I hadn't told anyone that. About 1am my phone rings and it's him so I hang up. These texts followed.
Him: Hey, let me in, I'm outside your house.
Me: No you're not, leave me alone.
Him: I am, I know you're alone, let me in (then some descriptions of sex stuff he wanted to do)
Me: Leave me the f**k alone! I'm not home alone anyway, you're wrong. You don't even know where I live!
Him: I do, I'm outside your house. Your room is the one with the red curtains (which is correct)
Me: No it isn't and you've never been to my house.
Him: I picked you up the first time we went out.
Me: From somewhere about a 10 minute walk away from here! You've never been to my house.
(I looked out my bedroom window and there was no one to be seen)
Him: I just saw your curtains move. Let me in.
(I ran around the house and turned all the lights at the front off, I dunno why, I guess I just thought it would put him off)
Him: You just turned the lights off, I know you're there.
I was crying a lot now and the last text I send was: Leave right this second or I am calling the police. If I ever see you, hear from you or have any contact with you again I will call the police.
His reply: You don't need to be a bitch about it. I'll go.
I still don't know how he knew where my house was or that my parents were away that night. I can only assume he followed me.
Oh and I saw him about a month ago in a club again. I'm 24 now so it was few years ago and I didn't notice him at first. He came over to me and said "hey, we dated a while ago, remember?" and I just left and went home.