[Serious] People that are/were in romantic/sexual relationships with their bosses, what were your ages, how did it build up to that point, and if you were the pursuer what gave you the courage to go for it?

I got my first official job at 18, I was a sales associate at a relatively upscale women's clothing store.

My manager was a male in his late 20's, he was somewhat flirty with me and I didn't mind the attention.

One day I was scheduled to open with just him, when I got to the store he asked if I was excited to be alone with him. I just laughed and smiled at him, then he kissed me.

I felt a little uncomfortable, I wasn't really sure what to do. I definitely thought he was attractive and I liked flirting with him, but I never thought it would go beyond that point.

Even though I had some doubts, I kissed him back and let him cup my breasts, under my bra.

I was nervous we might have been on camera(we were in the break room, there supposedly wasn't cameras in it, just one pointing at the entrance.

I ended up putting in my 2 weeks notice a couple days later because I was fairly confident I would get a waitresing job I had interviewed for a week prior(I got it)

He was very cold to me at work once he found I was quitting, although he would text me trying to get me to go to his house regularly.

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