At uni I used to do some stripping with 'extras', it was mostly a lot of fun and led to a few appts for just the extras. Then one woman fell for me and invited me out after a gig, but she treated it as a date and got angry with me and almost started crying when I tried to charge, my bad as I should have got the money upfront, which I always did when stripping. She seemed to think we had a connection, again my bad as that's exactly what you try to do, make connections to get more tips, and it's true I did like her but definitely wasn't looking for something like that. I felt pretty shitty tbh and only stripped one more time but had got wary so gave it up. Still wonder about her a bit.