Should I (25F) tell my boyfriend (32M) his choice of porn makes me insecure?

I mean, go and talk to him. lemme share you my experience. my husband LOVES to watch Latina and Black girls doing anal. I've seen his history too and I watched it with him too, almost all of them are latina, asian, black girls doing hard core anal sex. (idk the names, Im sorry) and the thing is, I am white as fuck, blood and I dont have the largest tits and ass and I have some :3

I felt insecure at first because I couldn't do anal, I can't ride hard like any of those girls but he said "it's just a fantasy and fantasies doesn't have to be real" and he said that there's a reason why porn is an entertainment, he doesn't have to do or experience of those stuff and since that we're happily married, he didn't see any problem on watching it either.

I couldn't wrap my head around it at first but now, I sometimes watch it with him and jerk him off sometimes. you just need to communicate.

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