Thanks so much.
Yeah interesting about what you said about my mom haha its true and she's too involved with her family tbh but I don't seek her understanding anymore cause ultimately she won't understand the degree of hurt (It seems NOBODY in that family will) because well they haven't experienced it themselves I guess. She says she will keep her distance from most of her fam too but I actually don't care and it's beyond the point. I don't care who she speaks with from her fam as long as I don't have to ever again lol!
Tnx so much. They don't have access via phone to me and there's a lock down rn but no doubt my gran will visit in the future alongside the kind yet tone deaf aunt... I just need to stand my ground I guess from here, if I don't explode to her beforehand like I was considering in doing
It will be the summer by then and I will go Low contact make myself scarce if they ever were to visit. Tnx! Sorry about your abusive fam you deserve better