That's actually not true. As a school teacher I have learned many, many things from kids. Their mentality is most often crafted by their upbringing and their parents. Kids that "break free" from the broken homes often have other family that helps them or friends of the family and it helps guide them to more stable lives of their own.

As for me and my sister in law; I am incredibly kind to her. I still support both of them that's why I said I financially and physically help them occasionally. As in fix their furnace, fix a hole in the wall, pay for a car bill because money was short. That's just September. Both of them like and love me and I love them, but before her I used to hang out with him all the time even with his girlfriends. But say hey bro let's go frisbee golf or play video games this afternoon. But no, she needs him home to smoke pot and watch a movie. That was my last of dozens of failed invites for things to them in August 2021. How do I know? Because he fucking told me.