May I ask what sacrifices will he be making?? Does he expect you to take care of all household chores, in-laws, babies alone?? Will he be able to support all your financial needs?? Will he give you money to spend on yourself for anything you want without any questions??

How is money managed at your house?? Is it your "dad's money" or is it your parents' money?? Does your dad give money to your mom to spend on what she wants(I mean things solely for her and not for the entire family)?

I am just curious to know, because usually the dynamic is that the earning member thinks of their earnings as their money. And the non-earning member usually has to hear things like why are you spending so much, you are always asking for something, in-laws telling that you are spending their son's hard earned money etc etc