What is something you learned about a friend or relative that you wish you didn't know? (Serious)

My sister, my mum and I once went to make myself a new debit card (because me being 13 at the time, I didn't know WHAT tf I was doing, so they helped me) in a bank that was in the city center because my previous one got permanently locked for some reason (they said I didn't use it frequently enough or something idfk). When we first applied to get my second card, they had sent us the confirmation letter saying that we are to visit the bank and receive it in person in the next few days - but most importantly, is that we had to bring it to the bank as confirmation. So we go to the bank after a few days and, as you'd expect, I forget to bring the bloody thing. We only realised that I had forgotten it when one of the workers actually told us to show them the confirmation letter. As a sort-of-a-punishment they made me take the bus on my own back home and get it while they kill time shopping. And that's when I realise that I've had a double whammy: I had also left my phone at home too. With my mum being all paranoid and over-protective, she convinced my sister (at the time 21 btw) to give me her phone so my mum could ring me and vice versa. Just in case.

So I take a mental note of her password, hop on the first bus and begin my journey. I soon become bored and unlock her phone so I could watch yt. The FIRST thing that was on the screen was her private conversations with her boyfriend.

Latest messages were her sexting him flirty stuff like "this will be yours 2nite if u want" accompanied by two nudes. They weren't FULL ON MELONS AND A VEGETABLE, but she was fully nude down to her waist with the inappropriate parts only slightly covered.

*checks time of sending*: about 4pm

*checks current time*: fucking TWENTY minutes after sending

I scrolled for about 5 seconds out slight curiosity, and I'd say about half of her messages were sex related and were sent about every 2 days, most of the times that would be sent during scheduled family dinner. She never found out, but every time she pulls out her phone at the table, I can never think of anything else but this incident.

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