I'm tired and have a headache so please excuse me if I'm overly blunt. You shouldn't have been around them before and shouldn't be around them in the near future.

And you can't rely on other people to give a damn about you and your baby. I mean, they have proven themselves untrustworthy.

YOU and your husband have a responsibility to your baby. You have to be the adults and that means making the hard decisions.

It's not that I don't understand the pressure, we all face it. But I can tell you that when you get to be an old hag like myself you TELL people what you are going to do. End of story. You might listen politely but then you say N.O.