3. Do I still have a chance?(I know it's a long but a brother needs to know : \ )

Do I still have a chance?(I know it's a long but a brother needs to know : \ )

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I met a girl at the bus stop, we talked but I didn't ask for the digits because I was scared. Fast forward some time later I see the same girl at a mixer of my fraternity. I'm about to go home and she stops me and says "hey we live in the same building, we should walk home together." We're walking and talking and one thing leads to another and I ask her to my crush party. She texts me her name and we go our separate ways. Two days later I text her with the plan for the crush party, and then she texts me about 20 hours later (she later apologized for this during our crush party) Which I personally think is bizarre but hey, girls will be girls. Fast forward to crush party, I wasn't expecting anything, if anything I had bad expectations. But you know what happened? We had a blast, we came close to kissing on multiple occasions and we sort of just vibed ya know? I've been on many dates before and know when they go bad, but this one went amazing. Throughout the night she's like "we should hang out, we should study, etc...." Now two days after crush I text her asking to go to dinner. She replies and says she's "Aww I'm sorry but I'm extremely busy today. I have initiation followed by dancer auditions for my company for 6 hours and then a dinner tonight : /" (these things are legit and not excuses, and people are busy so I don't really care). I then text her with a "haha that's cool, so what days this week would you be free". That was about two days ago and no response. So that's where we are today. I know she didn't offer to reschedule but all girls are different. Honestly from the crush party I become much more interested in this girl and honestly see her as someone that I could maybe be in a relationship with someday. I've asked my female friend and she said maybe this girl isn't looking for a relationship, but to be quite honest I don't think a request to grab lunch is saying "I want to be in a relationship with you". I've been told to wait and I've also been told to double text her but I don't even know if she's still interested or if she was interested in the first place/

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