No I didn’t make an irresponsible decision. You don’t know me at all, how could you assume my child struggles? He has a great relationship with both of his parents, both sets of grandparents have partook in helping to raise him, and providing help when I was unable to afford a babysitter. He has so many people who love him and help provide for his well being beside just me. It’s about family, the elders have so much wisdom and love to be of help for their grandchildren. I have a million friends and parent friends who love to have him over and hang out. He has a good education, always has everything he needs an more. I work my ass off and I’m an independent contractor running my own business and I’m putting myself through more online education. I have the beginnings of a savings for a home and a savings account for his education and ask people not buy him junk but put money in his account. You don’t get it. The love I have for my child has been the biggest motivation for me ever. He is so grounded, happy and smart, he’s so loved by his whole family and community. We have so much support. You can’t sit down and make a list on the internet as a childless individual and ever get it. I’m sure lot of people who agree may have childhood trauma and it can trigger people to look at that, but there are people who can tick off those lists and have healthy children with loving homes and upbringings, which is why I’m saying, it doesn’t work that way. it’s a matter of free will and will power and love. Stop projecting on people you don’t know, love.