Story Time - Week of January 25, 2016

Using a new profile just for these stories. I have gone on 6 dates in about a month but I'll start with the two that come to mind to bring things up to date. Also, I'm freshly out of a 2 year relationship that comes into play for my stories. Not emotionally over it so I decided I would start to casually date. Here goes.

GIRL #1: Okay, so we'll call this girl Bumble because I actually first started talking to her via Bumble even though we also matched on tinder. This was during thanksgiving break and she was super cute in her pictures, and she looked a little tall. I'm a solid 5'9" so sometimes this is an issue for women, but never for me. Obviously. Anyways, we probably sent each other messages back and forth via text for like a week really getting to know each other that way. We talked about all PG rated things and about our families, our music tastes, books, etc. So we decided to meet up for a drink at this little divey hipster bar close to her apartment, and I was really excited about this date.

I arrive a little early and order myself a drink while I grab a table and wait for her. When she walks in... HOLY SHIT. She is beautiful beyond words. This girl has the best smile, 5'8", awesome style in clothes. So, she grabs a drink and we start talking with each other with ease. The conversation is great and the drinks are flowing. So, once we leave the bar she invites me over to see her place and we make out drunkily. It was a sloppy make out sesh and I was super turned on but she didn't want to have sex. Fine, so we decided to meet again later in the week and I take an uber home.

Fast forward to the weekend and we decided to meet at my place for a chili I had going in the slower cooker and she was bringing things to make cookies with. It turned out to be a super fun night. We played cards, made the cookies, talked about life, our families and I felt a real connection with this person. She once again said no sex and no staying the night but once we started making out heavily and I went down on her she was asking for a condom. So we had sex, and it was great sex. This is usually where casually dating lacks for me because my ex and I had the most amazing sex. We are both into some really kinky shit and compliment each other sexually in the most amazing ways. Anyways, this girl was down for some stuff and I could tell she was experienced. Also, she had amazing tits. Like, her with clothes on do them no justice. They were the perfect size for my hands and were super perky. Amazing. This girls body really made my dick hard. It was a great night but she stuck to her guns and didn't stay the night.

So at this point, I was about to have finals for my professional school and really needed to clamp down. Also, I was going home for the holidays for 3 weeks so me and Bumble decided to just wait until after break to see each other again. Once break started, we texted a few times but it sort of fizzled out after a week. From her end. I wasn't too upset because this is where my ex comes in.

My ex lives in my hometown and so obviously we stupidly hooked up for the first two weeks I was there. I think in a way its helped me move on a little more now, but still never a good idea. I should have just left it be but like I said, our sex is insane.

I get back to school from my break and decide to start swiping and I match with this girl, use a pick up line to get her to come over, and she's on the next bus over. Wow, that was too easy. And for a reason. The girl shows up and she looks exactly like her pictures. She has a cute face, a little curvy, but nice tits and ass. I was down for a one night stand with her. So we get down to the sex and this girl is gushing from her panties when I reach down there. Like fucking gushing. I could tell she NEEDED a good fuck. So I played with her pussy for awhile, ate her out and she was ready to go. This girl came four times in like 15 minutes. It was amazing. So then I was ready to cum and she said she wanted to taste it. Okay, awesome. She starts blowing me and I finish so hard in the back of her throat, but she gobbles it all down. Never had a girl take a load like that in her mouth before. It was hot.

Next night she texts me and I stupidly tell her to come over again. Now, the sex was great but I was getting some serious attachment vibes from this girl, and I was right. She comes over and brings her favorite book with telling me all about it and letting me borrow it to read. At this point, I knew this was the last time I wanted to see this girl but I had sex with her anyways and afterwards she told me she LOVED ME! I was like, what?! And she said she's never had this type of instant connection before. I just wanted to get her out of my place asap and give her the bad news via text. I couldn't be around her anymore. So I faked being sick and said I really wanted to be alone and sleep. Took some convincing and she finally left.

I sent her the bad news text that we were looking for completely different things and she was pretty upset. Said I shouldn't have slept with her and what not. Maybe I need to be more upfront before sleeping together, but I thought using tinder/fucking the first night sort of implied it was casual. Whatever, live and learn. I still have her favorite book and I'm thinking of ways to get it back to her. Fuck.

So now we are at last weekend, and I decide to see what Bumble has been up to. We didn't text much when I was gone and so I just let her know I was in town. We set up to meet last night and it was snowing like crazy so made a rain check for thursday. Awesome. I'm excited to see her again.

Swiping today again just for fun and I match with a 9/10. Cute little blondie who looks amazing in all of her pictures. So I shoot her a message about meeting up for a drink and she was really receptive. So we messaged back and forth a bit and are now set to meet up on friday. Also really excited about this one.

So, thats my stories. Like I said, there have been a few more dates in the last month. Some have led to sex, some were just dates that didn't have a connection. One is a FWB. I've lurked for awhile here and love mirinafar's and 'the girl with coffee in her name from NY's' and danktinderman's and everyone elses stories but it looks like we might be losing some of the best to relationships. Yuck. I'll start posting my stories more frequently here if time permits.

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