I can understand that - a little more background - I planned a date for tonight. And she said it was a great idea, and then suggested we do it early and plan for spending more time together. So I planned it all, and shes backtracking. Which would be fine had she actually taken the time to talk with me rather than just decide it, and give me 1 sentence about the change.

The issue I'm having - how do I just overlook the let down? I'm literally not excited now, I think i could be again, shes been great up to this point, but the airs out of the balloon for the moment. I'm all for respecting her uncertainty, when I know the concern for each other is going both ways - but I'm not feeling that atm.