From a woman's (older than 29) standpoint, this is on point. There are plenty of wonderful older men to date and love that aren't specific about age. But they're wonderful men so like he said they don't want to make the wrong impression.

I think you're noticing the younger ones because you have a fear that you're too old but I promise that's not the case. There are other posts here from women in your bracket.

Some people get lucky and actually chance upon someone irl. But so many people these days, particularly those seeking specific qualities, are meeting online. However you decide to meet men, don't be afraid to just drop a line and say hi or give them a few glances and smiles.