It's a biological mechanism -- people think of me as "dramatic" when I talk about how the reason for sexual attraction/why sex is pleasurable and why we seek it out is because reproduction; people laugh at me and call me "dramatic" (with the irony being, squealing like a bunch of children while pointing and laughing about obvious facts related to biology is pretty fucking dramatic, not to mention, childish, rofl).
The men forget this (just like the women), put on a condom, have a shit-ton of sex, get approval from their guy-friends, and forget the whole reason it was a "high-five" moment to begin with was because (originally) it meant you just passed your biology along (securing your bloodline).
Except nowadays, you're (hopefully) not just passing your biology along.
Meanwhile, those same men swear being child-free is the only thing that makes sense, even as they're just tossing blanks in what is, extensively, a series of fancy dry-humpings (with no consequences beyond orgasms and "bagging another human being" points that relate to previously aforementioned outdated elements of our biology).
They're men that have forgotten their biology, encouraged by women that have forgotten theirs, that love to degrade themselves and what sex means in general (let alone what sex means to them on a personal level), getting high-fives from a bunch of other children extensively playing "placate the penis" (even as they forget what the point of the fucking game was).
I don't see that as "adult", "woke", or "studs", I see it as a continuation of the same system that has kept men in line the same way it has women, just working coal shafts instead of being tied to stoves, and facing the barrel of other men's guns in war instead of the hand of an abusive spouse.
It's just more violence; just more objectification; just more using people; just more playing pretend; just more putting off having a "real relationship"; just more contributing to the things you claim to hate about the world but refuse to quit doing.
I see nothing respectable or estimable about this, and I seriously, highly doubt post-orgasm clarity is going to fucking change that.