No. I'm asking that you let her be and let her respoind in her own way. If she is a vet have her call the crisis line and talk to someone other than you. If she is not? have her call the same nuber and hit option 1. You are fairly over powering in your attitude and words.

She has a new phone where she can call anyone she wants. I have no idea if she made any calls at all or if she is getting support from an anonymous forum. Like I said she doesn't start any conversations period or say anything about what is happening. If she ends up killing herself or injuring herself I would be so fucked.

You want to try to test me with acronyms constantly. I'm not someone who is going to play this little game with you.

All I am trying to prove is you don't know who I am so don't threaten me saying you have a good idea of where I work. You have no idea where I work who I am or anything about me beyond these few paragraphs and response I have given you which could be completely fictional ok? Don't threaten me and we will leave it at that.

Yo posted here that your threw and choaked her husband and wanted to know the ramifications and apparently you are dealing with those. You can get her some therapy, yourself some therapy, I would suggest not throwing people against walls in the future, and YES... your need to go the VA and get some fucking counseling.

That was the summary in fact if you have the fucking time to read my other post and understand the situation it wouldn't be so difficult. The guy was 6'3 230lbs (30lbs and 2-3" on me) which is a lot fucking bigger than me if I didn't make the first move I could be the one having my face smashed in or beaten half to death. I do strength training in the gym so I might not be big but I know I am strong that is why I didn't want to take any chances with him. I don't even know what takes priority in this case my career, her killer husband lawsuit, her, or my sanity.