(Trigger Warning, SH) Ladies of Reddit, to counter the ridiculous "Nice Guy" (TM) claim that, "It's only harassment if he's ugly but flirting if he's hot", what are some incidents where you've been creeped out or harassed by a guy you considered very physically attractive?

There is this guy who started messaging me, i knew him from highschool so we started talking. It was nice and we're like getting to know each other but i was always busy so i can't respond to him immediately. Then one time while i was too busy to text him i got a call from a random number but when i picked it up the caller is not responding. After that this guy texted me saying that i sound like a snob. So i thought that was weird calling me while using another phone but i let it go. Then he told me those times that he saw me like that time when i was in the resto where he used to work(which i had no idea) and he's telling me how he wants to approach and talk to me but he was too shy. At that time i lost my interest because other times he keeps on whining about his ex then suddenly he tells me how much he likes me.

Keeps on messaging me like. "Let's meet up." "Since you're busy, we can eat somewhere near your place." "Where do you live?" "Nevermind, i'll search for it. :)"

He thinks it's romantic but at that time i was a little scared because we have mutual friends then i know he already had an idea where i live but thank God it wasn't my current place. Still i was paranoid whenever i'm walking on our street.

He is attractive and i know he thinks i'm just playing hard to get. Then he's telling me things he would do if we're together. "I will cook for you, i know you like pizza remember when i saw you at...."

For months he kept on pestering me, fortunately he got tired because i completely ignored him.

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