Ever since my childhood my mom has pointed out my "pudge" and said things like "youre not gaining weight are you? You know you wont be happy if you get fat." It also upsets me when she constantly idolizes me as an example and says she wishes she could be thin like me or compares my sisters to me. Recently i let her know i was trying to gain a couple of pounds and told her i was unhealthy because I cant eat as much due to stress. She of course resorted to "i wish i had that problem. Not eating normally makes you gain weight." She should've been more concerned. I told her my weight. I wish shed offered to help me find help. But she didnt want to hear me. It was all about how she should come stay with me so i can cook for her. Seriously starting to wish inpatient was a valid option for me.