I just read your first post. I couldn't be with someoneike this.

I've been with my husband for 5 years, whenever we go get together with other people (family, friends, coworkers) he's talking his ears off but his hands are always looking for mine. Sometimes when I do leave his side, he comes looking for me and checks on me, making sure I'm having a good time. And I'm not kidding, he does ask me: "are you okay? I wanna make sure you're having a good time."

In previous relationships, I was always the one giving attention and getting none. You wedding day for the is just the setting for something else more complicated happening in your relationship. You shouldn't be seeking for attention like that, my husband has never "ditched me" in any way, he sees his friends not so often, and even when he's super excited he always seem to ask me if I'm okay with him going out with his friends. I never say no, he doesn't need permission from me, but he always asks me. He's considerate and I love that.

Yelling? Or making a scene in front of people? Jeez. Never in our entire time together, not once. I cannot imagine how embarrassed and hurt you must've been.

I wish you the best of luck. I hope you're marriage works. Those traits for for me are a no-no, very unattractive in a man. I don't expect to be treated like a princess but I do deserve to be respected, especially be in a higher ranking than friends. Traits like those I think are a peak to the possible future. I'm not saying my husband will never do crazy stuff, but I made sure to pick wisely. It something else happens later on, I know it won't be for lack of judgement or just me settling for "good enough". Just bad luck.