it sounds like you have a chip on your shoulder about this

Not at all. You're just playing the game in the best way you see fit.

You've used some mean words

I don't believe I have. I called you entitled, which you are and others agreed.

You've also thrown in things out of line with this value- my age.

Your age is important because it gives me a clue as to why you're entitled. I'm a curious person and I want to know why you're the way you are.

There's nothing wrong with me finding the attribute of a man liking me enough to want to pay to take me out attractive.

Certainly not. I believe in the legalization of prostitution myself.

I guess I'm attracted to hardworking, successful men.

Every woman is.

I think taking care of me when they can makes them feel good, I certainly enjoy taking care of the ones I love.

I have no issue with a man taking care of a woman. I just don't think you should expect a man to pay for you until you're exclusive.