Alternate experience: my boyfriend only tried (and not really succeeded) to have sex a couple of times before me. He was basically a virgin and had never dated before.

When I met him, he told me that he had decided to keep his porn use to maybe once a week, and to only masturbate with a very light touch so that he wouldn't have problems with a death grip. Seriously, the first time we hooked up was the most gentle blowjob I have ever given.

That kind of reasonable, healthy thinking is a hallmark of his personality, and I love him so much for it. It's important to change up your masturbatory habits so that they're conducive to partnered sex! But it's not like anyone ever tells you that you're going to give yourself a complex if you only jerk it to hentai with a death grip.