What about the opposite sex confuses you the most?

For me no. Im close friends with the only girl i could ever say id marry. My intention when we first met was never to end up friends i always found her attractive but i never found the right time to make a move and by the time i did she was dating another guy and i was stuck in the same class with her for 6 hours a day for almost 2 years and we got close. Before i knew it i didn't really care about how attractive she was but how opinionated, devoted, and intelligent she was as a person that and she was just a tad bit crazy which was fun.

I cant say its impossible for others but i havent met any other guys with close friends that are girls where there isnt any kind of attraction from one side or the other unless the chick is 100% gay and then there's only one.

As i guy i feel that as soon as you really start to know more about someone of the sex you're naturally attracted to and know their personality you tend to find them more attractive then you would if you were just distant acquaintances. So by nature the girl you tend spend the most time with is the one you become more attracted and attached too.

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