What is the biggest secret you have hid from your partner?

tbh i never gave foot fetishists much thought and similarly thought the idea was pretty weird because i personally didn’t understand it at all.

however, my current love very much has that fetish and i’ve come to realize that i kind of love it. it’s hot, he makes me feel sexy, and it’s very fun to have extra/alternative ways to get him off. i’m still not into feet myself, but learning how much it gets him going has caused me to also now see them through the lens of sexiness.

all that to say, it’s possible it’ll go over well with your gf (assuming she loves you and is at least a little open minded). try to own it without too much shame but also maybe give her the “out” in case it makes her real uncomfortable.

it helped me when he explained what exactly it is that he finds sexy about them.

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