3. What common sentiment expressed on AskWomen makes you mad?

What common sentiment expressed on AskWomen makes you mad?

I'm putting you in your place by calling out how ridiculous your opinions are. Not sure how you missed that. I can't censor you, but I can point out how wrong, harmful, ignorant and judgment your opinions are.

I find it offensive

I find your opinions offensive. Deal with it.

Being gay is simply about who you're attracted

And fetishes are what you're attracted to. I the case of BDSM, it is also who you're attracted to.

there's nothing harmful about being gay

Likewise, there's nothing harmful about BDSM relationship. I'm sure abusive BDSM relationships exist, but then there are also plenty of abusive gay relationships.

Homosexuality is normal So is BDSM, you'd be amazed.

"Kinky" isn't a sexual orientation.

Nobody said I was, and as you outline later in your post we are talking about BDSM and not "kinky" whatever that is-- I was under the impression it was an adjective.

I don't believe it's normal to want to beat or rape your partner.

What if you want your partner to "rape" you?

and people who beat their partners or role play rape. I don't believe it's normal to want to beat or rape your partner.

Lots of people pay a lot of money to get beaten or act out other BDSM fantasies. Rape fantasies, are not uncommon at all (although I think those who assert that they a majority or even universal thing are disgusting), and while lots of people who fantasize about it may never decide to act upon it, those who do of either gender have desires as valid as any other involving consenting adults. Anyone actually involved in a BDSM relationship will tell you that it is about control, which ultimately belongs to the submissive, anyway.

What I'm getting at is, you don't really seem to understand BDSM very well. It stems from something one might consider very ugly about humanity, but the practice itself is designed to subjectively serve all of the people involved. It's actually a very beautiful thing, if done well.

So I'm criticizing that, I'm not complaining about light kink.

Please stop trying to reframe the argument. The problem is that you think it's okay to refer to something that happens between two consenting adults as abusive basically because it makes you feel bad. It's just really not cool.

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