What did you not understand until you experienced it?

My ex love bombed me in the beginning, I guess unlike other I was really observant on my relationship and the red flags kept piling on. I thought I loved him (but looking back it was just infatuation). Basically he was a drunk and said something abusive to me.

Never in my life have I dumped someone so fucking fast. I was raised by a strong minded family. You screw with us, your done. Love it is nice. But I im not anyone punching bag or doormat. At that point that person is dead to me and im saying adios with two middle fingers up while they kept begging they will change their ways and shit. Fuck you. Fuck abusers. And fuck anyone who takes advantage of others feelings.

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