what the fuck is "an adventure"

It means that she thinks that her life is boring and she wants to meet a guy that will make her life exciting. Simple as that. Because that's what movies told her it will be like. This guy will show up, fall in love in her unpolished diamond of her personality (when in reality it's just a boring lump of coal), and will put effort in so she is never bored. Look at the internet - look at the amount of guides and articles that are meant to help men work on themselves and work on their manliness. A lot of men have drive to go to the gym, drive their careers and try to improve their personality and behavior. Now try to search the web for those things, but aimed at women. It's just diets and exercise. It's all shallow as fuck and women in general think that they cannot change their behavior - "lol, I'm such a bitch sometime, oh well - what can I do?". And it's partially men's fault, because we let bad behavior fly - after all we are there just for sex.

There is not so many girls that actually organize and do their own adventure. But if they do, it impresses men and they flock like flies. Good luck beating the competition - guys with sick abs and good genetics. Sure, they might be dumb, but don't have to. Even if they are dumb - oh well, if hot girl would be after me, I'm not gonna kick her out of bed just because she's stupid. So we are actually stuck with girls who rarely have a hobby other than "spending time with friends", watch TV shows or maybe going to the gym once a week (but really, she is working haaaard). There really should be more articles for men telling them to "expect more of women". Today the bar for them to hop over to get sex is so low.

I'm sorry if I sound like red piller, didn't meant it that way.

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