I don't hate the person themselves, but I hate the consequences and the mentality that they tend to have. It is a stupid excuse and I hate that I can't tell them they are unhealthy but it is OK for me to tell a smoker than their habit is unhealthy. That they can tell me that I need to gain weight or eat a hamburger but I can't tell them that they should stop eating hamburgers. That there is NO SUCH THING as a REAL WOMAN. If you have a vagina, YOU ARE A FUCKING WOMAN. The whole notion of REAL WOMEN have curves just shames other women who have no figure, no boobs, no butts, no hips, super scrawny etc. Is it THEIR fault that genetics decided that they shouldn't have a shapely body? NO. But it is YOUR fault for having beyond a shapely body. You tell me that I have to accept you, that you are being oppressed, that somehow what you suffer from is comparable to racism or the treatment of Jews during WW2 is fucking disgusting. I don't care to go out of my way to make you feel more special or treat you differently from any other person because you choose to be ignorant to your own health. I don't like the HAES. They preach it, but throw around the words anorexia and bulimia like it is a buzzword of the month. We preach loudly against anorexia and bulimia and say it isn't healthy and work hard to help those suffering from it, but we CAN'T do that to anyone morbidly obese because it is "politically incorrect". The fact that obese women can call a man an asshole with a small dick who never gets laid because he doesn't want to date or have sex with a fat women yet she won't date a man who is short, bald, fat, or not rich is fucking pathetic and then they have the fucking GALL to call themselves "feminists"!
Ya know what. The world sucks. Life is fucking hard. Plenty of people have it way worse than you and do what they can to make their lives better for themselves and for the people they love. YES in America we have an issue with our overly processed foods and crap that does make us fat, but you know what, DON'T EAT IT! Stop drinking soda! IT'S A CHOICE! Stop going to fast food joints! Make a Costco trip and buy a bag of Basmati rice, some chicken, Tilapia, and brocolli for probably $50 for a months worth of food! Stop eating processed foods! Don't eat shit that comes in a box! Don't buy prepackaged food! Prepare your meals ahead of time. Schedule out your day! When you are at work, get up every hour and walk around! Take a 15min walk during lunch, ask your boss for a standing table!
Even us skinny bitches have conditions! I've broken a foot in highschool that really fucked up my legs and back for YEARS. I was in a car accident that fucked up my back even more! My right leg is 1/8" shorter than my left and I can never walk barefoot unless I am in the shower because I will keep fucking up my body, avacados give me horrible heartburn. My left arm gets a mysterious sharp pain from my shoulder to my hand and I've suffered from it since a child. When it flairs up, I can't use my left arm (been to several doctors and no one can explain it). I pinched a sciatic nerve in my back in college and when it flairs up, my left side of my body gives out and I fall into things. The inside of my right foot has bad muscle strain that also flairs up and hurts a lot to walk sometimes. But I fucking DEAL with it and do exercises and stretches and see doctors and do PT and read up on it to try to fix it.
I have a full-time job at a tech company working 40-50 hours a week. I have 2 dogs that I walk each day for an hour, I am the one who keeps the apartment clean and does the laundry, the dishes, etc. I also do freelance work on the side and on top of all of this I am planning a wedding and I STILL find the fucking time to do exercise or do activities that don't involve just sitting. I drink soda a few times a month. I avoid fast food all together (except those Doritos Tacos...goddamn Taco Bell). I fucking LOVE ice cream and eat it all the time because it is about the only unhealthy thing I eat on average. I drink wine alot! I go through a lot of bottles, and I love beer but I don't go out and drink 5 drinks in one sitting or get drunk every weekend or get a drink EVERYTIME I am out.
Sorry. I have no pity for you. I won't hear your excuses. I don't care about your problems until you force them on me. YES your weight IS affecting me because you are trying to FORCE ME to accept your weight.