What if your parish offered a solemn OF Mass with all the Smells & Bells?

I would love to be able to go to an OF mass that is this solemn and respectful. Near me I have a parish that the last time I attended, the OF mass was to guitar music, there was clapping after the cantor (fairly over the top) sang the recessional hymn, the alter servers were wearing flip flops, and the many eucharistic ministers wore jeans. When I have a beautiful FSSP parish a few minutes further down the road, it's an easy choice.

I don't mean to be flippant, I so dearly wish there were more solemn OF masses like this, my family is really falling away from the church because of how insincere and rushed our home parish is. Something like this more consistently would be so beneficial, the parish I was baptized in has been steadily losing life-long parishioners due to how insincere and flippant our current pastor comes across.

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