I’d have written something like that, too. You’d be surprised how life really is for most people.

21 year old me would hate now me. But most other guys my age are in a similar situation. The funtime girl you dated who loved drinking shots and banging you six ways from Sunday becomes the mother of your children. You don’t live anywhere near family so you don’t get a date night in years. When you do get a date night you’ve got nothing to talk about and are knackered. You ask her nicely that it’s been several months since you last fucked but she decides she’s too tired at the last minute. You wonder whether you should just go live on your own but then you think about the kids and desperately don’t want them growing up with someone else as dad, and you don’t want to not be there for them. So you sleep on the sofa, you got to work, you come home again and repeat. They don’t prepare you for that in school, man.