I permit to join your conversation :)

Maybe what user444r don't understand, is that some people put a invisible barrier between body attraction and the act of sex. For exemple, you can be a well trained yogi but have yet the body attraction of women causing you inner problem sometimes, as it is the most powerfull thing to master. But this is not because you have this attraction, that you will succomb to it necessarily. At this point you know it is just an "automatic attraction", the law of nature that act inside us. By your training you know it don't come from you. This is why some can resist or are not attracted to casual sex anymore. They know it's just an automatic desire with no real meaning. They, maybe can have sex if they meet someone with same energy and mindset and if it is not an automatic response to an physical/mental urge, but a real decision and sharing. All is in the knowledge of ourself and our view of the world. You can't compare if you don't talk of the same thing...