What’s missing in your sex life?

Well, this is some personal background, to each their own. I don't enjoy oral, I find it very difficult to climax with it and I get bored if things don't progress fast enough (I also have ADHD). If oral was painful to perform for him like it is for me, personally I wouldn't request it unless, I guess, it was like the only way for me to get off. There are so many other ways to please a partner so I don't think it's a selfish opinion necessarily.

My ultimate point still being that even if the partner reciprocates but you personally heavily dislike the activity, it should be (mostly?) off the table with no hard feelings. There are other things you can enjoy together, yknow?

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