What’s wrong with using my sexuality and femininity to benefit me?

I understand the implications of onlyfans (although I understand free will, I don’t think I’m cut out of that life choice).

I’m referring to people I come into contact with irl. It’s normally from men who work in service roles. It doesn’t always happen on a daily basis but I’ve received weird comments about it before. When I smile and we have a nice conversation, I rarely pay. Friends or colleagues with me make comments.

I think I’m hyper aware of it after reading a few articles online and it’s triggering thoughts. I don’t understand what would be wrong with it. I don’t dress in a provocative way or initiate any of it. If the person decided to respond to me in that way, surely others would realise it’s natural.

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