What’s your important decision of the day, and how can we help?

When we started seeing each other, we knew that neither of us are the type to be "casually dating". Dating for us (like it is for many people I guess) is a means to figure out whether or not you want to spend the rest of your life with them. And now he intends to propose...

I've found him to be hardworking and honest, but idk if we have that spark. Like when he meets my friends, he seems a bit out of place. His interests/hobbies don't exactly align with mine. And in order for us to be together permanently, one of us will have to relocate to an entirely new city (though he'd probably be willing to do it). So why am I still considering it?

If we got married tomorrow, I'm sure he'd be a dedicated husband...if not an interesting person. But if I let this relationship go, who's to say the next guy wont be be a shit partner even if he is a more riveting person? Who's to say there even will be a next guy?

Should I wait for someone who's company I actively enjoy or accept someone who's company I guess I don't necessarily mind?

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