I think my boyfriends mom has a mild rform of autism and the family either doesn't talk about it, or knows and never told myself or my boyfriend. I can't stand my boyfriends mother she drives me up the wall and no one in their family acknowledges how out of line,selfish,rude,possessive,inappropriate,lazy and needy she is.I'm 90% positive my boyfriends mother has adult asperger's and I don't know if I should say how I feel. We've been together for 2 years and she's always been nice and accepting of me, yet had almost no filter in private or public, is Clingy and repetitive. I won't go into detail but I have hundreds and hundreds of first hand accounts and examples of why this theory makes so much sense after all this time.It's was a complete accident when I was venting to his half sister (they share a father) about her and she has also had personal experiences of being baffled by her behaviour in social and public situations, and his mother acting jealous towards his sister. I made a plausible/implausible chart and plausible won.. idk help