What is something you won't tell your friends or family, but you will tell Reddit?

Hi there,

Luckily I have all messages sent to my inbox, so I am glad I got to read this.

I know my original post sounded resentful toward my family and friends, but I am trying not be. I love them all dearly, but at the same time, they are pulling me from myself. I just moved 3 hours away from home and my friends for a great job. I was excited to find myself, and see who I really am. I am more than happy to visit my friends and family, just every weekend is draining and exhausting when I visit. I want to find a weekend hobby, but I am afraid if I start something, I have to give it up to see my family every time I have a free moment. I need to find that middle ground.

I am glad you sent this to me. Makes me feel like I can let go a bit, and try to find myself. Everyone keeps saying "JUST TELL THEM NO" but it is not that simple. I have no reason not to go there other than I want to be by myself for once. I am going to try new things here. Like the humane society or something like that. I actually JUST scheduled myself to be a weekend judge at a Lego League competition here in town. I am excited to meet some people and be able to stay near my house. it's a stepping stone I think.

Your post (and many others) helped me realized I am in the same boat as many others. Thank you.

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