What is stopping you from getting a partner right now?

Yeah.. so… I think it’s obvious you should never call a stranger “sweetheart”. My “trick” is just a way to improve the way you talk to women.

In the context of online dating, you can still have a similar mentality but without going to that extreme which was used only for illustration. Basically it’s just a tool to help you talk more confidently if you don’t know how to say something. If you put the girl above you and treat her like a goddess, she will lose interest. If you’re boring, again she will lose interest. If you feel like you’re talking to Giselle Bundchen, you’ll be too shy to talk properly.

It just helps sometimes to clear your mind and talk like you’re older than someone and more experienced in life and feel like you have to take initiatives. I guess you’d have to be in the conversation itself to see how my tip would work, because I can’t give an example of a generic conversation that would always work

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