But those things are fairly easy to change. I've been fat before, I lost weight. I had no interests, I'm gaining some now.

But to fix by balding head, I need to get on medicine that can really mess with my hormones. To get taller, by only option is a $50k surgery in a different country. To be less ugly, I need thousands of dollars for cosmetic surgery. To fix my teeth, I need thousands of dollars as well. If I was rich I probably wouldn't be incel, but I'm not, and I'm not sure if I will ever not be an incel because of that.

Even ugly guys can get girlfriends.

Most of them these guys just get in relationships by luck though. I have been on these forums for years now and some members on incels forums escape and post their success stories, it always comes down to luck. Nothing special they did. Some don't get lucky though and end up as virgins past age 30. On r/incels we have one user even in his 40s-50s.

I don't think women should accept me as I am despite being physically unattractive though, and I believe most others incels think the same. There is a reason there is so much self-loathing in these communities and why so many refer to themselves as "sub-human". Most of wouldn't date ourselves if we were born female as well.