Here is one of the posts on the ENTJ subreddit where he is talking to a moderator (it's a sticky post).
I think you fail to understand the distinction between civility and politically correct censorship / enforced niceness / politeness.
Civility includes frosty civility which means "we'll coexist, we'll work together, and still I hate your fucking guts". What you want is "I'll pretend to like you and lie lie lie lie lie lie lie my ass off to propitiate you because you have the power to suck up to someone protecting you".
If you cared for civility at all LogicalEmotion7, you would allow precisely "I hate you because all your type are assholes that deserve to die". Because civility isn't about words used, and sure as hell isn't about the hurt feelings of the other person. Civility is about tone. Cold, ice, and frost are what it's about. It's about keeping cool.
And you aren't cool, you only pretend to be cool. That's why you get confused on what coolness really is. "absolute zero liquid nitrogen? no that's out of line!"
You don't even have the guts to say "all of you are losers that aren't nearly as cool as I am so I have to forbid you all from even pretending to be cool because you'll suck at it." And you know what? Gutlessness isn't cool.
Oh and just so we're clear,
Deliberately picking fights with the community (or about other communities) is a violation of the civility rule.
is entirely 100% true. But useless as 99% of what people see as "picking fights" isn't so for the purposes of civility. You can have a fight and keep cool. You can pick a fight and keep cool. You can avoid picking a fight and just state your position coldly or coolly and still douchebags will accuse you of picking a fight because their feelings are hurt and you're not politically correct and they are TRIGGERED TRIGGERED TRIGGERED. When the reality is ... being triggered violates civility. Being triggered isn't cool.
Let me reiterate my position: your position violates English Language. The words you use simply don't mean what you believe they do. And your position is NOT in fact perverse or absurd. It's simply flatly unambiguously false. Civil is short for civility in truth not civilization as you claim. And most Quentin Tarentino movies disprove your claims about civility and coolness.
We can see he has very precise logic and language. That's why he's interesting to me. Both of you are persuing a similar topic. I just wasn't sure if you ever spoke with each other, since your systems don't really align.... but then again, that's only in comparison to the broken MBTI system.So maybe you two have more in common than you think with your systems.