When doing anything in life.....

"If you cant impress yourself, you're just tricking/duping others around you."

It's Translated.

It means if you can't do something with love and dedication, you're only tricking yourself into doin it and only for the sake of doing it, inevitable tricking ppl around you to thinking you actually love doing what your faking.

It can be anything from your work, to your life choices...if you're not happy or impressed by it, your just maintain face for someone else.

Best related to relationships, if you're in a bad relationship and you don't speak up, not only are you unintentionally convincing ppl that your happy with said Person but also disappointing yourself by not even trying for yourself.