One month ago I met a girl on tinder. She seemd to be quite nice, she even suggested to the same day we have started talking. We went to on a hill only the 2 of us, it was night, we were in her car. I am a massage therapist and I'm really enjoying it, and I asked her if she wanted to receive a massage, Initially she said no, but after some time she wanted a back massage. I asked her how it is and her reply was a bit shocking to me, she said something like "It's really good, it tickles me a bit, but also turns me on". Me being this shy wierd guy didn't know what to do. Several minutes after I asked her if she wants to receive some massage somewhere else(my intentions weren't sexual at all), just to tell me. She said something like "If you continue to massage me like this, I will most likely ask you to massage me somewhere else", with a kind of a sexual intention I think.

I'm not usually the kind of person to receive those kind of comments and I don't know what to do when this happens, I awkwardly said something like "I won't say no if you really meant what you said". And yeah. Nothing happened.

After this we stopped talking for a week and several days, she was having final high school exams, so I let her study in order to receive a good grade. I messaged her right after she finished her last exam, we spoke, and wanted to meet again. We met the next day, she went to a party close to my place, where there was also a party, she came to my party, stayed for around 20 minutes, she was with another girl. She said that she wants to go back to the other party, I said that I will come with them, before we left, a black guy from the party came into my room to roll a joint, and these girls saw him. The girl I was talking to asked him and quote "without being racist, is it true that black guys have big penises?". She didn't even say hi to him, not even said her name or whatever. I found this really strange. Anyway, I went with them to this party, on the way there, we hold hands, no big deal. I arrive there, I notice the area where I was usually getting for free was blocked so I tried to find a way to go in that area without paying(this place is one of the most boring places for parties ever, same music all the time, they always run out of beer not even half into the party, and the price was huge considering these things).

At the entrance they were checking for bracelets. I thought about finding a riped braclet outside, from people that went home and I found a piece of a bracelet that I used. I went home to make a belivable bracelet and returned to this place and saw this girl dancing with a friend of mine(I don't think she knew him before or that we know each other already). I started talking to him, just casual stuff and suddenly she said something like "You know we are not together, right?" and she and her friend went outside to smoke, then left. I don't know what she understood from the situation, or what happened, I'm confused even today because I don't know what have actually happened. I messaged her one week later to congratulate her for the grades on her exams, and I said sorry if I made anything that made her upset. She saw my message and ignored it. She didn't blocked me yet. She is still following me on instagram.