What's the most attractive thing your partner has said to you while having sex?

I had a sort of opposite experience with the guy I am seeing and it was unspeakably sexy. Consent now is (thankfully) so important but when I was younger that wasn't even remotely a thing I was ever asked.

He lead with a longing look and asked me "Can I kiss you?". I said yes, it was sweet he asked but at the same time it felt a little weird for me.

However, while we were kissing his hand gripped my hair and he tugged in this firm yet gentle way. I cannot express how much that did it for me. I kinda jumped back and "That was risky. You had no idea how I would react to that." but clearly into it.

Him not asking was what made it so much fucking sexier. If he had asked I am sure it still would have felt nice but that was the moment I was like "Oh yeah...I want this guy..."

We talked about it the next day and he let me know he felt terrible and consent was incredibly important to him. Which has proven to be very true. I don't think I have ever trusted a sexual partner in the way I trust him. It's a nice feeling.

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